My old person trait is that I think ‘ghosting’ is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

    • stappern@lemmy.one
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      no you dont. you dont owe people jack shit.

      a relationship is a voluntary situation that can be interrupted at any time for any reason. Theres a reason usually these ghosting winers have incel vibes…

      • WimpyWoodchuck@feddit.de
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        a relationship is a voluntary situation

        Except if you’re standing next to me in the supermarket. Or at the bus stop. Or sitting near me in a restaurant. Or at the doctors office and so on. And in all of these situations, I expect common courtesy from you. Or I consider you as an asshole.