My old person trait is that I think ‘ghosting’ is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

  • stappern@lemmy.one
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    1 year ago

    no you dont. you dont owe people jack shit.

    a relationship is a voluntary situation that can be interrupted at any time for any reason. Theres a reason usually these ghosting winers have incel vibes…

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      1 year ago

      a relationship is a voluntary situation

      Except if you’re standing next to me in the supermarket. Or at the bus stop. Or sitting near me in a restaurant. Or at the doctors office and so on. And in all of these situations, I expect common courtesy from you. Or I consider you as an asshole.

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        1 year ago

        since we are talking about ghosting and not a random interaction id say you are off topic.