And I’ve never had a SO who would be against me going to strip clubs either. That seems prudish as well.

You’ve had some weird, prudish SO’s then, thats perfectly normal and if a woman i was dating was that controlling, I would be out the door.

Im not saying snitching is better than not. Snitching has consequences for the snitcher, and there is nothing that can be done to make these consequences not happen. Even the police can’t stop the social consequences of snitching. You just have to be prepared to deal with them .

So your son is a snitch but doesn’t want the consequences of snitching? Im sorry, but you don’t get to be a rat without pissing people off. Its life.

Strangely, this is what makes the Federated system so much better than centralized systems. Lemmy.world goes down? No problem I can switch to one of my other accounts in an instant and keep going.