I’m not sure about you, but the best partner I could ever think of is one that is also your best friend; they are easy to talk to, comfortable to be with, you can joke with them, appreciate the world with them, and generally see them as your best friend, with the layer of also feeling profound physical, emotional, and (possibly) sexual intimacy. You genuinely love each other in the most pure sense of the word and can depend on each other more certainly than anyone else, because you can share anything with them, because they are your closest friend in the world.

However, most of it depends on what you want. Simply think about what you want most in a partner, and then look for that. Are you looking for someone who is also figuring out what to do in their love life? Do you need someone to push you in a direction? You have far more agency in your choices than you think you do.

Perhaps first, you should meditate on what you are looking for before you begin seeking it.

I’m glad you enjoy it! spread the word, help others find the joy of obscure bands!

The Belgian 80’s metal band Ostrogoth.

Their website doesn’t exist anymore and the only band-run social media page is on Facebook.

If you’re a fan of retro heavy metal, give them a listen! They still tour, though you won’t be finding much about it online.

I’m out of the loop, what did she do?

no, most of the people in it literally worked for the government, even the woman that got shot was literally in the air force, but thanks for revealing your barely veiled hubris lol

I would like to make you aware of the fact that it’s been proven most of the people in the Jan. 6 insurrection were government employees. I’m sorry simply having a discussion with you makes you feel like you have to defend yourself, but many of your sources and statements are either false or misleading, and clearly it would be a waste of my time conversing with someone that absorbed in their point of view. Good day!

and it’s in the tens of thousands now that Joe is in office, do you want to explain that, or will you decide to pin the blame on the politician of the day to be a scapegoat? If you haven’t realized, the “hate crimes” aren’t being committed by just people who you politically disagree with, and saying they are is just pushing the blame onto others

yeah you know nothing about me or what I have to do in day to day life to be accepted in society by peers and colleagues, nice assumption though

I’m glad you can sleep a happy narcissist tonight

unbiased proof? I don’t see how people will just magically decide their aggression level based on the arbitrarily chosen political figurehead in power

blaming the president for the actions of random people definitely makes sense to me

what else can we do in a country like this with the candidates and party system we have? it would be nice to have real elections and options.

don’t worry too much buddy, the worst that can happen is your political view gets relentlessly strawmanned, treated as an attack on freedom, and most of the internet will find it acceptable to openly mock, ridicule, and threaten you for your beliefs and overexaggerate the candidate most closely associated with your point of view (whether true or not) as an unstable hateful fascist dictator, as well as adopting the most dramatic persecution complex possible, whining that their election will result in your shunning and death.

Oh wait…

I’m not sure about how it works in Europe, but in the U.S., military surplus clothing is an excellent budget friendly, durable option. I will say that the stitching can sometimes be spotty, but if you know how to sew, you can get a pair of pants that can stand toe to toe with brands like Carhartt and Dickies for 20-30 dollars less.

women, I’ve never spoken to one in my life and getting over my fear of them