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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • Depends on what you want to achieve.

    Video games are an easy way of losing yourself in a hobby for an afternoon. Can become addictive and you may lose the entire weekend.

    Do you want games that focus on the social aspect and make friends? The story? Quick reactions and precise timing? Building something? Compete? Challenge yourself and improve (at ultimately a pointless task in a video game)? Simulate something accurately?

    Before you start, as a gamer what do you non gamers do to spend your free time on anyway?




  • I don’t want kids so that narrows down the dating pool to something more like a dating puddle.

    I generally keep to myself. Every social skill I have comes from deliberate practice.

    I did manage to find a girl. What I did:

    Figure out what my strengths are and in what situations I get to show them. I get compliments on having a pleasant voice. So anywhere I’ll talk some is good.

    Work on mitigating your weaknesses.

    Work on being a {pick one or more: fun/pleasant/useful/positive/etc} person to be around.

    What I did not tell you is how long I had to do this.










  • Attitude: I generally don’t care unless they try to tell me what to do based on their religion. This is generally never a problem, I’ve had more vegans and environmentalists bother me.

    Getting along: we have some high faith denomination of Christianity here. I’ve worked with a few and generally don’t notice unless they drop something heavy on their foot and don’t swear.

    Thought of believing: not since I was 12 or something.

    Do not like faiths: I acknowledge they can create a sense of community and belonging. I have a dim view of the dogma that tends to come with them.